Wednesday, August 4, 2021

Writing From the Heart #IWSG

The first Wednesday of every month is the Insecure Writer's Support Group (IWSG) Day! The IWSG is an amazing community of writers brought together by Alex J. Cavanaugh. It is a place where we can share our fears, successes, thoughts, and expert tips about writing in a safe space without the fear of feeling foolish. Sign up here to join!

Today our fabulous hosts are PK Hrezo, Cathrina Constantine, PJ Colando, Kim Lejevardi, and Sandra Cox. Please stop by to tell them thanks for hosting!

This month's optional question is:

What is your favorite writing craft book? Think of a book that every time you read it you learn something or you are inspired to write or try the new technique. And why?

I started writing my first stories in elementary school. Our teacher assigned us a story a week using as many spelling words as possible. Even though it was assignment, I wrote for me, crafting the silliest, craziest stories that made me laugh. I had no idea about any of the actual techniques of writing other than basic English grammar that we had learned up to that point. 

They probably weren't good stories, but every week I got my paper back with a big red "A" on it and that made me want to write as much as I had time for. 

As soon as I could I signed up for creative writing courses in high school. I was lucky enough to have a mother who was also interested in writing stories so we both attended several writing conferences together to learn all we could.

Most of the books I read about writing were during that time, pre-Goodreads. Either they weren't very good books or I have a terrible memory because I can't think of a single title.

I'm not sure why I didn't take creative writing in college. Probably because my parents kept encouraging me to major in something I would make money in and for some reason, though I was a passionate writer, I didn't think of it as a profession. I changed majors five times trying to find what I wanted to study that could be a career. I started with engineering but there's so much math!

As a professional figure skating coach, I haven't used my degree in linguistics once. Oh well.

Finally, I came back to writing and started reading about the techniques of writing and that's when I found,

On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King

On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft

It has everything. He gives us an up close and personal master class filled with tips on writing a better story and things to watch out for as well as when to not worry about all the rules, and advice to trust yourself. Every time I read it, I want to grab my notebook or computer and write for hours. My biggest take away from it brings me back to my elementary classroom--write what you want to write and write it from the heart.

It also made me start reading his other books, which, because I'm not really a fan of scary things, I had never read. I'm still not a fan of scary things but I do love his writing. 

What is your favorite book on writing?


In other news, I will have a release date for my debut non-fiction book, One Year On Broadway: Finding Ourselves Between the Sand and the Sea, very soon! Stay tuned! 

A true story of forbidden love, adventure, and letting go

How do you know when it’s time to close one chapter of your life and begin a new one? To let go of the past, open your heart, and trust in a new beginning?

At first we said, “no.” We knew it was ridiculous.

And yet something in our hearts led us back to the Island.

Having no idea where it would lead, my husband and I took a leap of faith and became co-producers of the Broadway Revival of Once On This Island, the musical that had given us so much. 

Even if it failed, we would have a great story to tell.

We ended up with so much more.

I'm still looking for a few more people who would be willing to help with the launch! Anything you can do helps: a blog post, a review, a social media shout-out, anything that fits your schedule!

Thank you to all the wonderful people who have already contacted me about helping!

Hope you all have a wonderful August! 

Kathy :)


  1. Congratulations!
    So much for your degree, right? I assume you love being a coach though.

    1. Thanks! YES! I am so grateful I get to coach kids!

  2. Congrats on your upcoming release.

    I intended to be a vet when I was young. Somehow publisher-author-speaker happened instead.

  3. Hi, Kathy! King's book is brilliant and a favorite of mine. Keep us posted on your book, because it is one I'd love to read. Take care!

  4. I just discovered you have a degree in Linguistics! Me too. I have an MA in that field. I love linguists. They never roll their eyes when I say things like "I'm more of a descriptivist than a prescriptivist."

    1. Haha! That's funny! I didn't know you had an MA in it! I was thinking about going to grad school but then I got married and had kids!

  5. On Writing is a good choice. Congrats on your release!

  6. Sounds like the writing was always there. At least linguistics is writing related, or words related anyway. I agree that On Writing is a book that can be returned to time and time again.

    1. Yeah, I've always loved words and languages. :)

  7. Lots of people recommended this book. Congrats on your release! If you're a follower of my blog, I'd be glad to shout out about your book in my Follower News the month it releases. Email me at if you're interested and are or become a follower.

    1. Thank you! Oh that would be awesome, and yes I am already a follower! :)

  8. Congrats on your release.
    I'd be happy to have you give a shout-out on the blog. Just shoot me a note in my contact form.
    Have a great reading/writing day.