N is for Nelson Mandela

This year, my theme is Quotes from A-Z.  Each day I will post a quote from a person whose name starts with each day's letter.  It will be short and sweet but hopefully it will bring a moment of inspiration, laughter, or meditation to your busy day.  I would love to hear your thoughts on the quotes in the comments or what other quote is your favorite by that day's person. On each Saturday, I will list all the quotes from the week and you can vote to tell me which was your favorite!



N is for Nelson Mandela
(1918-2013)

Nelson Mandela
photo from Wikipedia

“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.” 













Quote found on Goodreads.


What are your fears that you are working toward conquering?

Kathy 

Rishikesh River Rafting

Ganges River in Rishikesh, India

I have this irrational fear of unfamiliar water.  Canoeing a gentle river is one thing.  Rafting down class III rapids is quite another.  Yet somehow I let my darling husband convince me  it was a good idea to leave the safety and comfort of our sanctuary in the Himalayan foothills to go rafting down the Ganges River!  "After all how many times will we be in India?  We may never get this chance again.  Besides the rapids are small, we won't go down the big part, it will be more like canoeing really", he said.  I would have preferred hiking through the lush rainforest instead, but being married, sometimes you make sacrifices.
Another couple, who were friends from home, had decided to join us.  My friend was pretty nervous too which made me feel better.  We sat in the back of a tiny pick-up truck as the Nepalese rafting guides drove us down a crazy mountain road to the banks of the Mighty Ganges River. The steep mountain forests surrounding us did little to calm my spirit as the head guide went through all the safety precautions.  I didn't have a problem with the handing out of life jackets, but I think my face went pale as he nonchalantly described how to free yourself when stuck under a flipped raft.  Great, I thought.  The guides don't say things like that on canoe trips!  To my overactive imagination his warnings did not resemble a flight attendants speech before take off.  I felt a wall of impending doom wash over me.  My stomach twisted in knots.  I contemplated backing out, but before I could make up my mind I was climbing in the blue rubber raft.
We pushed away from the shore.  The water was calm but murky.  I wondered what creatures lurked in the depths beneath us.  I scanned the river ahead.  We were approaching the first rapids.  I followed our guide's instructions like a soldier obeys his general.  He said, "paddle" and I paddled as if my life depended on it.  Everyone else in the boat started whooping it up thinking this was great fun.  Even my friend acted like we were on some roller coaster ride.  In an instant, we had passed over it and the river widened and softened, tricking me into thinking it was harmless.  I knew there were more rapids to come so my senses remained on high alert.  We passed through a couple more small rapids without too much difficulty.  But soon the soft bank of the river changed to steep rock faces.  The water around me boiled with activity. Our little blue boat barely missed the jagged boulders just peeking out from under the water's surface.  And then I saw the most frightening sight I had ever seen.  A wall of water that must have been 12 feet high towered above us.  My mind raced to thoughts of my kids and how I hoped that we weren't about to make them orphans.  I cursed myself for leaving them at home and for being talked into this craziness.  Our guide yelled "paddle".  I clenched the oar so tightly nothing could have broken my grip.  I focused only on me and the water and I prayed.  I don't understand how our tiny vessel didn't flip, but we crested that wave and slid down the other side as if it had been a water slide.  Only then was I aware that the guides in the boat were teasing me...mocking my seriousness. I realized that I was the only one in the whole boat who wasn't wet!  Our guides were such experts at navigating this river that they actually controlled who got soaked.  I finally had to laugh.   I allowed myself to enjoy the sights of cows wandering to the river bank and the sounds of monkeys howling in the nearby trees.  There was one more rapids to go over ....this time I whooped and hollered like the rest of them... I also got soaked.


Kathy          

Monkeys watching our adventure

 






 

Our rafting team with expert guides!