Friday, August 29, 2025

Magic at the Library

 My daughter works at our local library which is on my way home from work. Yesterday, I decided to stop in and say a quick "hi" to her and see how her day was going. She works at the circulation desk and no one was in line, so I just hung out there and we gossiped a little about what was going on in her day. 

A customer walked up to check out books with her two little kids in tow. I moved aside so my daughter could do her job and I headed to my favorite sections. 

This is where the trouble began. If I had just finished our conversation and said, "Okay sweetie, I have to go now," everything would have been fine. But nooooo, something was calling me from the inner most shelves like a tractor beam tugging at the Millennium Falcon. 

I didn't need to pick up any books. I already have plenty on my night stand. Most likely though, I would look around for a little and not find anything, tell my daughter "goodbye," and head home.

Of course that's not what happened. 

Libraries have this magical, serendipitous power. Fate can place a book that you never knew you needed to read on the top shelf of the stack you pass, someone can cough loudly next to you and you look over and see this book cover right in your line of sight. Some unknown force makes you reach out to grab the book and you flip to the summary on the back cover.

It's got you.

You can't put it down now. You know you have to take it home and read it.

Yesterday, seven books caught me in their spell. Could I have written their titles down and gotten them a different time when I needed another book? 

Sure!

But I was drawn to them in this moment and I let the serendipity lead me right to the circulation desk where my daughter checked out all the books for me. 

I know I probably won't finish all of them, but I figured it also helps the library to check out lots of books. In a time when funding for our libraries, especially in Ohio is scarce, it helps to show that they are being used often! 

So go to your local library to support them and let serendipity take over!


Have a beautiful day!

With Love, 

KathyπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ˜€

 

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

Traveling Tuesdays: Ancient Temples of Angkor Wat--Otherworldly

One of many ornate towers of Angkor Wat
Ever since I heard there were ancient temples discovered in the northwestern jungles of Cambodia, I dreamed of one day visiting Angkor Wat. I thought of myself as an Indiana Jones type explorer trudging through the jungle...well minus all the bugs, spiders, and snakes. 

Actually, I'm not even all that adventurous. I'm terrified of being in the ocean or any big water. I'm scared of bears and other large creatures with big teeth, and I'd much prefer staying at a nice hotel than roughing it in the wild. But I LOVE to travel and see new places, it inspires me and fuels my imagination.

Luckily for me, my husband is adventurous and last April we ended up in Siem Reap, Cambodia as part of an extended trip around Asia. We only had two days in Cambodia so on the day we were visiting the temples, our Tuk Tuk driver, Tiger, picked us up in the morning from our hotel in Siem Reap. We drove about a half hour to the temple grounds which cover over 400 acres of land. Angkor Wat and its surrounding temples are deemed the largest religious site in the world. 

Devatas 


The temples were built over a 30 year period from about 1110-1150 AD. They were built by the Khmer people during the reign of King Suryavarman II and dedicated to the God Vishnu. Throughout the temples, the walls are covered in bas relief carvings of Hindu Gods, Apsaras, Devatas, and scenes depicting the ancient Hindu texts the Mahabharata and the Ramayana. 

Several years after the death of Suravarman, Jayavarman VII, ruled the Khmer empire and converted to Buddhism rededicating Angkor Wat to Buddha.

 It is now a fascinating mix of both religions, with statues of Buddha, Vishnu, and the Hindu inspired bas relief carvings.

I found out recently that Angkor Wat was never "lost" at least to the local monks, the Western world simply "rediscovered" it in 1860. That fact, though, doesn't take away from the temple's otherworldly mystery. 

The temple grounds are a hugely popular tourist destination and the day we were there was no exception. It happened to be part of the Cambodian Songkran Festival (New Year's) so many locals were visiting the temple as well as foreign tourists. 

In 2018, there were over 2 million people that came to visit. Many Buddhists and Hindus alike come on religious pilgrimages. They kneel before Buddha in silent meditation, leave offerings, light incense, and pay homage to the wall-length battle scene in the Ramayan where Rama defeats Ravana. 

Aside from the splendor of the architecture, one of my favorite moments visiting, was when a family with three teen girls dressed in the beautiful, traditional Khmer silk sampot, were trying to get selfies in front of the most photo worthy spots. They laughed and joked with each other as they posed for pictures-exactly like our kids at that age when we took them to New York City or Yellowstone National Park. 

Bas relief wall carvings 

Some times you dream of visiting a place for a long time and then when you finally get there, it doesn't live up to what you expected. 

Buddha with flower offerings
That was not the case here. It was breathtaking. At one point there was a steep staircase(almost scary steep!) that climbed nearly to the top of the temple where you can look out over the vast surrounding jungle. 

How many people throughout its 900 years have looked out over this same scene. It's eerie and beautiful at the same time, like somehow your connected to those souls that have set foot in the same place, you have shared that same space, not in the same time but nonetheless you can almost feel their presence, as if some of their energy stayed behind. 

Every so often we would come across a bullet hole in the stone walls. A relic from the more recent past, when the ruthless Khmer Rouge took over Cambodia.

It was pretty crowded when we were there around mid morning. Most of the travel sites suggest getting there early to see the sunrise over the temple and beat the crowds. I'm not sure if it would be less crowded since everyone advises it, but it would definitely be cooler at that time. 

It was an oppressively hot and humid day and my choice of clothing to modestly cover my shoulders and knees(required to visit) wasn't quite breathable enough, so I wasn't too disappointed that we only took a half day to see as much as we could. It was not nearly enough time to even see half of the complex.

The grounds were a huge maze of temples and forest intertwined. A few times, we met up with our driver, Tiger, who took us across bridges and through gates that led to other temple buildings. He told us much of the history as we drove and he pointed out special spots. One was the King's palace, I can't remember which king built it though, and one temple was supposed to be where he was buried. 

He told us what this gorgeously ornate temple was to the left--but I can't remember. There is far too much for my brain to absorb in one day. 

At one point, a monkey crossed our path on his daily commute, he didn't even seem to notice we were there. Another monkey, much more serious looking, sat on a shaded corner of the outer wall, like an ancient temple guard keeping an eye on the intruders. No more than ten feet from us a whole family of monkeys in a tree broke out into a turf war, screaming and chasing one another up and down the trunk. Despite all the human visitors, this was still their jungle.

Ta Prohm-"Tomb Raider" temple

Even the trees don't respect the man-made boundaries. At the Temple of Ta Prohm, where Tomb Raider was filmed with Angelina Jolie, the trees are taking back the jungle, trying to erase our footprints. Their giant roots are consuming the temples, leaving areas of rubble in their wake. I'm not sure what was more impressive at Ta Prohm, the intricately carved temples or the trees here.

It looked like science fiction, like somewhere on another planet.  


If you ever have a chance go visit Angkor Wat and immerse yourself in this stunning other world. 


This video below shows the massive heads carved on one of the bridges leading to a temple gate.



For more info on Angkor Wat check these out:

Britannica.com

Have you been to Angkor Wat? Do you like to travel? What's one of your favorite places to visit?

Have a great week!

Kathy :)

Friday, August 22, 2025

My Little Babies in their Pots

3 healthy avocados and one a squirrel got 
I love my garden. When my hands are in the dirt taking care of my plants, whether it's planting, weeding, or harvesting herbs and flowers, I'm at peace and in the moment. It is my little time of "active meditation." 


My newest little babies are 5 brand new avocado seedlings. A couple months ago, my husband and I were really craving fresh guacamole, so I made a big batch and I had all these beautiful avocado pits left over. I decided to see how many I could germinate. Over the years of being a plant geek, I've come up with my own method for avocados.

Starting a new avocado pit
 I rinse the pits and then lightly wrap them in wet paper towel. I place them in an unsealed ziplock bag and hide them in a darker corner of my kitchen. I check on them occasionally, and after a few weeks, the pits have cracked open and the root begins to appear, it's pretty magical.


Out of the six pits that I wrapped, 5 of them produced roots. I planted all of five. Four of those sent out stems quickly, the fifth one looked like it was trying to but it wasn't making much progress. We've had super hot moist conditions all summer here in Ohio, so it's been good weather for them to grow in.

 Last week, I was disappointed to see that some animal, probably a squirrel, had climbed onto my deck and dug one of the pits up and eaten it in half, breaking the tree stem from its roots! But the rest were unharmed. In an effort to try to save the little guy, I've cut the end clean and dipped it in a rooting medium to see if he can survive, I don't have a lot of hope for him but maybe he can pull through. 

The little, slow seed finally did send out a shoot to the sky and he's doing fine at almost 6 inches tall! 

Slow little guy



Hopefully, they can all grow strong enough before October, to be brought inside and survive the cold gray winters in Ohio. 









My fresh guacamole :)

I'll share the recipe in another post!

Hope your week has been great!

Have you started avocados successfully? Do you have an "active meditation" activity? What good news do you have this week?


Kathy πŸ˜ƒπŸ©·πŸ©·



Wednesday, December 4, 2024

IWSG, Cliffhangers, and More!

 

How is it already December?!!

It's time for another IWSG post, where we ask all our questions, release our writing fears, and support this awesome community!

Our lovely hosts for this month are:  Ronel, Deniz, Pat Garcia, Olga Godim, and Cathrina Constantine!

The optional question for this month is: Do you write cliffhangers? Do they turn you off as a reader/writer?

I personally don't write cliffhangers, but maybe that is mostly because I've never written a series. I'm not particularly turned off by them if they are done well. Especially for a trilogy or series you have to make the reader want to find out what is next, but I don't think that requires a dramatic cliffhanger. If you've written the characters with enough depth and the story is compelling, readers should automatically be drawn to the next book or chapter.


I hope everyone who celebrates had a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday or at least enjoyed some well deserved days off! 

We had a great time with a bunch of our family who came in to visit. Lots of food and laughter. My favorite dish is always the apple pie! What's your favorite?

We also went to see the new Wicked movie. As huge Broadway fans, we were blown away by it! We were moved to tears almost as soon as Cynthia Erivo (Elphaba) began singing. She was absolutely divine! I'd love to hear your thoughts if you got to see it. 


Happy Holidays to all!!

Kathy :)

Friday, November 8, 2024

San Diego & IWSG


San Diego Harbor


I've always wanted to go to San Diego. I'm not really sure why other than as a kid I loved watching nature shows with my grandpa and they often would show bits and pieces of the San Diego Zoo. Last week, my husband and I finally spent a week there. 

Compared to Cleveland, it was pretty much heaven. Blue skies and bright sun every day, high temperatures in the mid 70's, and lows in the high 50's! Back home we have grey, cloudy yuck about 362 days of the year.

Then there's the ocean and all of its beautiful bounty-- pelicans, seals, sea lions, the sound of waves crashing to shore... Ahhhh
La Jolla Beach -just north of San Diego

Year round flowers and green trees--bougainvillea, palm trees, roses...
Rose Garden in Balboa Park


The Zoo lived up to my childhood dreams-- we got to see koala bears, sleepily munching eucalyptus in their trees! Yes, they are just as cute as expected!! There was a giant elephant enclosure with jungle gym like toys to keep the elephants happily playing (I hope they were happy at least); tigers, cheetahs, lemurs, meerkats, mandrills, and so many other monkey-like animals. 

*TIP: Definitely get there right when it opens, it gets quite crowded later in the day with a plethora of parents pushing multi-child strollers. In the morning, we got to see many of the little fur-balls active and having breakfast and we didn't have to make our way through a maze of strollers.   

We had such a wonderfully relaxing time, it was definitely hard to head back home-though we missed our own little fluffy beasts (a beagle, a dachshund, and a toy Aussie Shepherd) and of course our kids (who are mostly adults but still mostly kids. 🀣🀣


And that is part of the reason that I totally forgot to post my IWSG on Wednesday! I was so excited last month to start posting again regularly and already on my second month I'm posting late :( 
So sorry!


THE IWSG!!!!!

If you're new to the IWSG, it's all about connecting and supporting other writers. Here is the official mission statement of the IWSG.

Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!
Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time - and return comments. This group is all about connecting!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!
Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.

The awesome co-hosts for the  November 6 posting of the IWSG are Diedre Knight, Lisa Buie Collard , Kim Lajevardi, and JQ Rose!

Every month, we announce a question that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience or story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post or let it inspire your post if you are struggling with something to say. 
Remember, the question is optional
 
November 6 question - What creative activity do you engage in when you're not writing?



I have two other main creative loves:

1. Figure skating, which as far as I'm concerned, is equally art and athleticism is my first love after writing. I have been skating maybe longer than I've actually been writing. Being originally from Michigan, where many babies are born with skates on, I started skating almost as soon as I could walk--which was before I could hold a pen or pencil in my hand to make letters. I've continued to actively skate my whole life with the only time off when I was pregnant with my kids. I've spent almost 35 years coaching skaters and one of my favorite things is creating programs for the kids in which they can tell a story to the crowd. 

Video below is me a couple months ago. :)




2. Cooking/Baking is my other creative love. There is just about nothing better than creating a meal that brings people together. Special memories and bonds are made when friends and family sit together around a table talking, laughing, and enjoying great food. I love cooking so much that my next writing project is actually creating a cookbook. Right now I'm in the process of gathering all my recipes and cooking them to make sure they are written correctly! Every now and then I'll be posting them here on the blog.

Here's what I baked this afternoon with fresh Ohio apples-you'll have to wait for the recipe! 


Apple cinnamon muffins. Yum


Can't wait to read what you all do besides writing! 
Take time to take care of yourselves this month and then have a wonderful love filled Thanksgiving!!!

Love to all of you!!
πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—



Wednesday, October 2, 2024

IWSG Spooky Season Stories

 

If you're new to the IWSG, it's all about connecting and supporting other writers. Here is the official mission statement of the IWSG.

Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!
Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time - and return comments. This group is all about connecting!

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!
Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.
 
The awesome co-hosts for the  October 2 posting of the IWSG are Nancy Gideon, Jennifer Lane, Jacqui Murray, and Natalie Aguirre!

Every month, we announce a question that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience or story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post or let it inspire your post if you are struggling with something to say. 

Remember, the question is optional

October 2 question - Ghost stories fit right in during this month. What's your favorite classic ghostly tale? Tell us about it and why it sends chills up your spine.

I have to admit, I don't really like scary stories. But there are a couple stories that have never left my mind after I was exposed to them. 

The Tell-Tale Heart and The Black Cat by Edgar Allen Poe have always totally creeped me out. I'll never forget reading them in my 6th grade English class. 

In both of these stories, the narrator murders someone and hides the body in their house. In the Tell-Tale Heart, the body is dismembered and hidden under the floor boards. The narrator's wife, in The Black Cat, is hidden behind the brick wall. Both of these murders seem to have happened not because of any specific injury against the narrator but because of some type of mental illness that the narrator is battling. In the end of both stories, the subconscious guilt that each character struggles with pushes them further over the edge of sanity and they end up revealing themselves as the perpetrators of the crimes.

As a 6th grader, the thought of a body being hidden behind a wall or under the floor was horrifying enough but then, the paranormal aspects of the narrator "hearing" the beating heart of the dead man under the floor in Tell-Tale Heart and the white noose forming in the fur of the black cat and the constant scratching sound behind the wall in The Back Cat, really freaked me out! Anytime I was alone in the house and heard "weird" creaking or other sounds, the hairs on the back of my neck stood up and I wondered if something paranormal was occurring!

Even today, the movies that freak me out the most are combinations of paranormal and psychological horrors. They just get stuck in my head and I dream about them for weeks afterward! 

So when my husband watches spooky stories with our kids in October, I hide under the blankets with my ears plugged!! 

What spooks you the most? Do you watch scary movies every October?

In other news: 

It's been a crazy year so far. Our daughter Jess got married this June and we had such a wonderful time hosting so much of our family and friends. It was a beautiful day full of love and blessings! 





When the festivities were over, I finally had a little time to get back to normal life and start writing more.  I've been working on a couple of picture books and I'm also in the process of writing a cookbook. I'll be posting a bunch of recipes here that I'd love feedback on if you try them! 

Hope all of you are doing great and having a good year so far! Can't believe we're at the tail end of 2024 already!

Love,

Kathy :)

Friday, September 27, 2024

Foodie Friday: Easy Beef Stir Fry

Easy Ground Beef Stir Fry

My husband has been very motivated to get healthy this year by playing men's league hockey three times a week, weight lifting, and by eating right. He came home from weight lifting one night saying he wanted simple ground beef and veggies and that's it. That sounded kind of boring to me. So I thought, why not make it like a mix between a fried rice and a basic taco meat. Here's what I came up with. It is now my husband's favorite meal!

Let me know what you think!

Beef Stir Fry

1.5 pounds lean ground beef-- I use 92% lean (you can also use ground turkey)

1.5 tsp cumin

1 tsp salt

1/2 tsp crushed red pepper (if you like really spicy feel free to add more!)

1.5 tsp oregano

4 eggs (I use 2 eggs and 1/2 cup egg whites)

1/2 onion-finely diced

4 cloves garlic-finely chopped

About 8 mini red peppers thinly sliced

About 6 mushrooms/shitake or button work great in this

2-3 Tb vegetable oil-I've been using avocado oil lately

1.5 cups Spinach- rinsed, dried and chopped into ribbons (kale works too if you prefer)

Fresh parsley-optional

Cooked Rice

Teriyaki sauce drizzle on top

Jalapeno optional


Teriyaki Sauce:

1/2 cup soy sauce

1/2 cup dark mirin

1/4 cup granulated sugar


Teriyaki Sauce Directions

Heat soy sauce and mirin in a small saucepan over medium-low heat. Bring to a slow simmer and stir in the sugar until dissolved. Continue to simmer about 5-8 minutes until it thickens to desired consistency. Allow it to cool while making the stir fry, sauce will continue to thicken as it cools.


Beef Stir Fry Directions

1. Start cooking rice.

2. Cut up onions, garlic, peppers, mushrooms, and spinach.

3. Put all the spices (cumin, salt, crushed red pepper, and oregano) in a little bowl and combine.

4. Crack eggs into a bowl and add egg whites.

5. Heat a large frying pan over medium heat.

6. Add a Tb of oil to the pan.

7. Brown the ground beef.

8. Add all the spices and cook for another minute.

9. Remove ground beef from pan and pour into a large serving bowl.

10. Add more oil if necessary to the pan and saute the mushrooms and peppers for a minute or two and then add onions, and garlic and saute until fragrant and translucent.

11. While veggies are sautΓ©ing, whisk the eggs and egg whites together until fluffy.  

12. Add more oil to the pan if necessary and pour the eggs into pan.

13. Cook just until the eggs begin to set up.

14. Pour the beef back into the pan and fold into the eggs.

15. Cook until the eggs are fully cooked and distributed like in a fried rice mixture. Stir in fresh parsley if desired.

16. Pour back into the serving bowl. 


Serve over rice (or cauliflower rice for Keto) or by itself and drizzle with teriyaki sauce.


Enjoy!!