I think any weekend is a great weekend to be in New York City, but we had exceptional weather this Labor Day. A perfect end to the summer.
| Saturday Church at NYTW |
| Maman's eggs and farro salad |
| Heathers is Big Fun! |
I think any weekend is a great weekend to be in New York City, but we had exceptional weather this Labor Day. A perfect end to the summer.
| Saturday Church at NYTW |
| Maman's eggs and farro salad |
| Heathers is Big Fun! |
A customer walked up to check out books with her two little kids in tow. I moved aside so my daughter could do her job and I headed to my favorite sections.
This is where the trouble began. If I had just finished our conversation and said, "Okay sweetie, I have to go now," everything would have been fine. But nooooo, something was calling me from the inner most shelves like a tractor beam tugging at the Millennium Falcon.
I didn't need to pick up any books. I already have plenty on my night stand. Most likely though, I would look around for a little and not find anything, tell my daughter "goodbye," and head home.
Of course that's not what happened.
Libraries have this magical, serendipitous power. Fate can place a book that you never knew you needed to read on the top shelf of the stack you pass, someone can cough loudly next to you and you look over and see this book cover right in your line of sight. Some unknown force makes you reach out to grab the book and you flip to the summary on the back cover.
It's got you.
You can't put it down now. You know you have to take it home and read it.
Yesterday, seven books caught me in their spell. Could I have written their titles down and gotten them a different time when I needed another book?
Sure!
But I was drawn to them in this moment and I let the serendipity lead me right to the circulation desk where my daughter checked out all the books for me.
I know I probably won't finish all of them, but I figured it also helps the library to check out lots of books. In a time when funding for our libraries, especially in Ohio is scarce, it helps to show that they are being used often!
So go to your local library to support them and let serendipity take over!
Have a beautiful day!
With Love,
Kathyπππ
| One of many ornate towers of Angkor Wat |
| Devatas |
Several years after the death of Suravarman, Jayavarman VII, ruled the Khmer empire and converted to Buddhism rededicating Angkor Wat to Buddha.
It is now a fascinating mix of both religions, with statues of Buddha, Vishnu, and the Hindu inspired bas relief carvings.
I found out recently that Angkor Wat was never "lost" at least to the local monks, the Western world simply "rediscovered" it in 1860. That fact, though, doesn't take away from the temple's otherworldly mystery.
The temple grounds are a hugely popular tourist destination and the day we were there was no exception. It happened to be part of the Cambodian Songkran Festival (New Year's) so many locals were visiting the temple as well as foreign tourists.
In 2018, there were over 2 million people that came to visit. Many Buddhists and Hindus alike come on religious pilgrimages. They kneel before Buddha in silent meditation, leave offerings, light incense, and pay homage to the wall-length battle scene in the Ramayan where Rama defeats Ravana.
Aside from the splendor of the architecture, one of my favorite moments visiting, was when a family with three teen girls dressed in the beautiful, traditional Khmer silk sampot, were trying to get selfies in front of the most photo worthy spots. They laughed and joked with each other as they posed for pictures-exactly like our kids at that age when we took them to New York City or Yellowstone National Park.
| Bas relief wall carvings |
| Buddha with flower offerings |
The grounds were a huge maze of temples and forest intertwined. A few times, we met up with our driver, Tiger, who took us across bridges and through gates that led to other temple buildings. He told us much of the history as we drove and he pointed out special spots. One was the King's palace, I can't remember which king built it though, and one temple was supposed to be where he was buried.
He told us what this gorgeously ornate temple was to the left--but I can't remember. There is far too much for my brain to absorb in one day.
At one point, a monkey crossed our path on his daily commute, he didn't even seem to notice we were there. Another monkey, much more serious looking, sat on a shaded corner of the outer wall, like an ancient temple guard keeping an eye on the intruders. No more than ten feet from us a whole family of monkeys in a tree broke out into a turf war, screaming and chasing one another up and down the trunk. Despite all the human visitors, this was still their jungle.
| Ta Prohm-"Tomb Raider" temple |
Even the trees don't respect the man-made boundaries. At the Temple of Ta Prohm, where Tomb Raider was filmed with Angelina Jolie, the trees are taking back the jungle, trying to erase our footprints. Their giant roots are consuming the temples, leaving areas of rubble in their wake. I'm not sure what was more impressive at Ta Prohm, the intricately carved temples or the trees here.
It looked like science fiction, like somewhere on another planet.
| 3 healthy avocados and one a squirrel got |
| Starting a new avocado pit |
Last week, I was disappointed to see that some animal, probably a squirrel, had climbed onto my deck and dug one of the pits up and eaten it in half, breaking the tree stem from its roots! But the rest were unharmed. In an effort to try to save the little guy, I've cut the end clean and dipped it in a rooting medium to see if he can survive, I don't have a lot of hope for him but maybe he can pull through.
The little, slow seed finally did send out a shoot to the sky and he's doing fine at almost 6 inches tall!
| Slow little guy |
Hopefully, they can all grow strong enough before October, to be brought inside and survive the cold gray winters in Ohio.
| My fresh guacamole :) |
I'll share the recipe in another post!
Hope your week has been great!
Have you started avocados successfully? Do you have an "active meditation" activity? What good news do you have this week?
Kathy ππ©·π©·
How is it already December?!!
It's time for another IWSG post, where we ask all our questions, release our writing fears, and support this awesome community!
Our lovely hosts for this month are: Ronel, Deniz, Pat Garcia, Olga Godim, and Cathrina Constantine!
The optional question for this month is: Do you write cliffhangers? Do they turn you off as a reader/writer?
I personally don't write cliffhangers, but maybe that is mostly because I've never written a series. I'm not particularly turned off by them if they are done well. Especially for a trilogy or series you have to make the reader want to find out what is next, but I don't think that requires a dramatic cliffhanger. If you've written the characters with enough depth and the story is compelling, readers should automatically be drawn to the next book or chapter.
I hope everyone who celebrates had a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday or at least enjoyed some well deserved days off!
We had a great time with a bunch of our family who came in to visit. Lots of food and laughter. My favorite dish is always the apple pie! What's your favorite?
We also went to see the new Wicked movie. As huge Broadway fans, we were blown away by it! We were moved to tears almost as soon as Cynthia Erivo (Elphaba) began singing. She was absolutely divine! I'd love to hear your thoughts if you got to see it.
Happy Holidays to all!!
Kathy :)
| Rose Garden in Balboa Park |
Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!
Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time - and return comments. This group is all about connecting!
Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!
Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.
The awesome co-hosts for the November 6 posting of the IWSG are Diedre Knight, Lisa Buie Collard , Kim Lajevardi, and JQ Rose!
Every month, we announce a question that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience or story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post or let it inspire your post if you are struggling with something to say.
Remember, the question is optional
November 6 question - What creative activity do you engage in when you're not writing?
| Apple cinnamon muffins. Yum |
If you're new to the IWSG, it's all about connecting and supporting other writers. Here is the official mission statement of the IWSG.
Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!
Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time - and return comments. This group is all about connecting!
October 2 question - Ghost stories fit right in during this month. What's your favorite classic ghostly tale? Tell us about it and why it sends chills up your spine.
I have to admit, I don't really like scary stories. But there are a couple stories that have never left my mind after I was exposed to them.
The Tell-Tale Heart and The Black Cat by Edgar Allen Poe have always totally creeped me out. I'll never forget reading them in my 6th grade English class.
In both of these stories, the narrator murders someone and hides the body in their house. In the Tell-Tale Heart, the body is dismembered and hidden under the floor boards. The narrator's wife, in The Black Cat, is hidden behind the brick wall. Both of these murders seem to have happened not because of any specific injury against the narrator but because of some type of mental illness that the narrator is battling. In the end of both stories, the subconscious guilt that each character struggles with pushes them further over the edge of sanity and they end up revealing themselves as the perpetrators of the crimes.
As a 6th grader, the thought of a body being hidden behind a wall or under the floor was horrifying enough but then, the paranormal aspects of the narrator "hearing" the beating heart of the dead man under the floor in Tell-Tale Heart and the white noose forming in the fur of the black cat and the constant scratching sound behind the wall in The Back Cat, really freaked me out! Anytime I was alone in the house and heard "weird" creaking or other sounds, the hairs on the back of my neck stood up and I wondered if something paranormal was occurring!
Even today, the movies that freak me out the most are combinations of paranormal and psychological horrors. They just get stuck in my head and I dream about them for weeks afterward!
So when my husband watches spooky stories with our kids in October, I hide under the blankets with my ears plugged!!
What spooks you the most? Do you watch scary movies every October?
It's been a crazy year so far. Our daughter Jess got married this June and we had such a wonderful time hosting so much of our family and friends. It was a beautiful day full of love and blessings!
When the festivities were over, I finally had a little time to get back to normal life and start writing more. I've been working on a couple of picture books and I'm also in the process of writing a cookbook. I'll be posting a bunch of recipes here that I'd love feedback on if you try them!
Hope all of you are doing great and having a good year so far! Can't believe we're at the tail end of 2024 already!
Love,
Kathy :)